I hate it the most when I see or hear a man say, “Girls, you don’t have to put on a lot of makeup and spend so much time finding the perfect dress because men like it best when you’re in your simplest form.” and bla bla bla bla blahhhhh.
I am not, in any way, saying that all men think like this. But I guess I can pretty much say that most of them do and to those who do, this is for you.
Do you guys really think that girls spend so much money on a foundation and an eyeshadow palette to impress the fuck out of you when you probably don’t even know the difference between a matte, sheer and a dewy foundation? Do you really think that we spend a lot of time thinking about what to wear because we are thinking what you’re gonna like and what you won’t like at the same time? Do you honestly think that we sleep late at night to watch youtube tutorials on how to do our hair just to get your attention? Fucking no.
I know a lot of girls have said this, probably even better than I will but girls do it for themselves. Get over yourselves. We do it because we wanna look good and feel good. Again, for ourselves. This is our body. This is our mind. We have every single right to do whatever the fuck we want.
Guys, not everything is about you. Just because you see a lot of women desperately looking for a lifetime partner, does not mean that 100% of the women population desperately want you and would do anything for you to marry us. No, some of us can actually live without you. Women don’t exist to impress and meet the fuck out of your unreasonable and unrealistic expectations of us. I am just so sick of people telling me what and what not to do. I am sick of seeing posts where guys are constantly criticizing every little thing that women do or decide to do for themselves.
I know that life is not equally fair with men and I know that men have issues about things like this too where women tell them what and what not to do especially in relationships but I am not here to speak about that. I speak about what I have personally experienced and still experiencing as a woman.